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Somehow I neglected to mention in my last post two excellent events which I recently attended. First was John Foxx's Tiny Colour Movies. I shouted [livejournal.com profile] dukeofmelbourne to the event as it was he who introduced me to early Ultravox some twenty years ago. It was excellent, an arthouse-style archive of movie fragments from disparate sources, combined with the Foxx providing backing music. The second was a more intimate affair, but one by a person who has probably affected more people indirectly; dinner with [livejournal.com profile] arjen_lentz who regularly visits Melbourne to provide MySQL training and do more work for OpenQuery. As usual it was excellent technical and friendly conversation and I quite enjoyed the contributions by [livejournal.com profile] laptop006.

Free and Open Source software is one of the areas where, it seems to me, the morally right policy is also the best technical approach. Widely reported, for example, has been a serious OpenSSL exploit which has affected Debian and Debian-derived systems (e.g., Ubuntu), which of course was widely discussed on Slashdot. Now despite the seriousness of the problem, it was found and patched remarkably quickly. Would this even have been discovered in a closed source model? Would the company holding the patents and copyrights admit the problem? Would they release a patch? With those questions in mind - and given the general usability of FOSS desktop UNIX-like systems, it never ceases to surprise me that people, every day, are still using MS-Windows and other closed-source solutions. It's morally wrong, and it's technically dangerous.

Over the years, I have realised the people who are attracted to roleplaying games are an interesting bunch. Many are people with either an incredibly systematic knowledge (it seems that every second sysadmin is a RPGer). Many (such as [livejournal.com profile] patchworkkid, [livejournal.com profile] artbroken, [livejournal.com profile] drzero for example) are people of significant literary merit and talent. But some however are special and not in a good way. For example, one has to be a "very special individual", to start an abusive tirade because an observer comments that a regular gaming schedule might work better than an inconsistent one. Such a "special individual" would include Ian Bouch (yeah, top-posting, start from the bottom *sigh*). Congratulations Ian; I don't often condemn people on my journal for their personal behaviour but you sir, are an arsehole.

Re: Just for Fun

Date: 2008-05-20 03:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com
Did you ever consider that he wouldn't do it 'just for fun' if he cared what you thought and do you think that he would do it to people that he didn't consider to be a 'pompous arsehole'?

If you don't care for a person's opinions, it is best to ignore them.

If you do care, you respond with a sense of common and civil politeness, even if you think they're pompous; and do not pretend for a moment that just that because a person appears to be dignified, stately and respectful that they are in fact just being ostentatious - the behaviour could be genuine and indeed it is far preferable to assume that it is.

It is possible to express one's opinion fully without engaging in the sort of comments and behaviour better suited to those who lack a good response.

Engaging in abuse is for "fun" is an example of arsehole behaviour, regardless of the context or whether or not you even like the person or not. It is respecting the person as a human with the right to respect and dignity equal to your own.

You really do need to get over yourself and find a more productive use of your time.

I will let my achievements and the respect of my many and dear peers be the judge on whether I use my time effectively and productively.

I suggest you consider what you are doing with your time.

It may help you become a better person.

Re: Just for Fun

Date: 2008-05-20 07:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com
*shrug* Some people don't like you. Sometimes the same people are rude about it.

Sometimes the same people see polite expressions that recognise that all people (regardless of any perceived foolishness) are deserving of a modicum of respect and dignity is being "pompous".

And yet, deep down, I suspect they know that they're PONA and their poor behaviour towards others is an example of their own social ineptitude.

Seriously, even taking out the ethical idea of simple courtesy, who would want to be seen in now multiple public forums engaging behaving like, as the link properly describes, as an arsehole?

Ian Bouch, that's who.

Maybe he'll get over it one day, and lift himself out of PONA status.

Re: Just for Fun

Date: 2008-05-20 08:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] imajica-lj.livejournal.com
> Some people don't like you.

That's ok I don't like me either.

Re: Just for Fun

Date: 2008-05-20 09:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com

That sir, is usually a sign of a person who wants to improve themselves.
:-)

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