I suppose I really should mention...
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... that I suggested to
caseopaya that we get a civil union in accordance with Victorian law.
She said yes.
(I "blame", in part,
airiefairie's excellent proposal for ending state-sanctioned marriage in favour of civil unions for all, and
beagl and
kimeros for cutting a similar path. Thanks for the inspiration.)
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She said yes.
(I "blame", in part,
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Date: 2009-07-28 01:00 am (UTC)Congratulations!
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Date: 2009-07-28 01:00 am (UTC)(y'know, Cal and I have struggled to find a good way to refer to each other; Civil Union Partner is terrible! We've defaulted to "husband" and "wife" (usually delivered in semi-ironic tone) even though we are expressly forbidden from using those terms in any formal sense. Be interested to see what you come up with!)
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Date: 2009-07-28 01:08 am (UTC)Second to me marriage as a term has a flexible definition dependent on the couple involved.
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Date: 2009-07-28 01:22 am (UTC)"Marriage is currently in two part. There is the legal part of it, then there is the ceremonial part." = sounds like what D & I did. ;D
Congratulations to you both, m'dears. May your union always be on your own terms, and no one else's. :) *hugs*
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