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Diary of a B+ Grade Polymath ([personal profile] tcpip) wrote2009-07-28 10:38 am

I suppose I really should mention...

... that I suggested to [livejournal.com profile] caseopaya that we get a civil union in accordance with Victorian law.

She said yes.

(I "blame", in part, [livejournal.com profile] airiefairie's excellent proposal for ending state-sanctioned marriage in favour of civil unions for all, and [livejournal.com profile] beagl and [livejournal.com profile] kimeros for cutting a similar path. Thanks for the inspiration.)
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[personal profile] tangent_woman 2009-07-28 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Huzzah!
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[personal profile] domestick 2009-07-28 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!
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[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Fixed markup error and the answer is "yes, sort of". A very "modern marriage" if you like. :)

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[identity profile] zey.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations to you both! :)

[identity profile] mr-figgy.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Did this happen before or after I appeared? :P

Congratulations!

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
It was that evening, shortly after you left :)

[identity profile] mr-orgue.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Wahey! great news!

(y'know, Cal and I have struggled to find a good way to refer to each other; Civil Union Partner is terrible! We've defaulted to "husband" and "wife" (usually delivered in semi-ironic tone) even though we are expressly forbidden from using those terms in any formal sense. Be interested to see what you come up with!)

[identity profile] zey.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
"S/he's my unionist"? :)

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ext_54569: starbuck (glee)

[identity profile] purrdence.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
w00t! :D *confetti*

[identity profile] a-carnal-mink.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:22 am (UTC)(link)

"Marriage is currently in two part. There is the legal part of it, then there is the ceremonial part." = sounds like what D & I did. ;D

Congratulations to you both, m'dears. May your union always be on your own terms, and no one else's. :) *hugs*

The Union makes us strong :)

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Heheh... It does sound a little like what you and D did. But I don't think we could quite match how you managed to effectively elope and have a public ceremony :)

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/raven_/ 2009-07-28 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations to you both :)

[identity profile] severina-242.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Hah!!! Congratulations, I'm looking forward to the big party and all the frou frou!

[identity profile] caseopaya.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
You have any tips for me LOL If you think Lev and I have discussed it further than the "Yes" you've got to be kidding :)

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[identity profile] caseopaya.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
By the way, I'm still in shock :)

[identity profile] txxxpxx.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
:)

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[identity profile] luciusmalfoy.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

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congrats

[identity profile] horngirl.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Grats!! Seems everyone's doing it!

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Something in the water perhaps?

[identity profile] delicious-irony.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations are in order then. Bravo to the both of you!

I now have a mental image of you trying to coax the animals into teeny tiny little tuxes. :P

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
[livejournal.com profile] caseopaya did suggest Trouble as a ring-bearer...

[identity profile] uke.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

[identity profile] usekh.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, many congratulations :)

[identity profile] allandaros.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, congratulations!

[identity profile] txxxpxx.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
wooohoooo. Congrats to you both!

[identity profile] the-shadow298.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
congrats to you guys.

a good modern way to do things. :D

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Indeed... I wonder whether over time such a variation will pick up particular traction?

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[identity profile] amarafox.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations :D

[identity profile] notthebuddha.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Congrtulations!

Do you have to get civilly united? :)


[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
Well... it's probably the best way that the legal benefits of what we're already doing I suppose without the ideological baggage.

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[identity profile] cheshirenoir.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
Heehee!

One of ussss! One of ussss!

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
Why are you hissing like a snake? ;)

(Yeah, took me long enough, eh?)

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[identity profile] ehintz.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
Ahh, congrats mate...

We're sort of the yank equivalent, having become commonlaw in Texas back around '95 or so. :)

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Even in Texas? Guess there is still room for progressive thinking there..

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[identity profile] splodgenoodles.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
How fabulous! It's a great and wonderful thing to do.

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