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Diary of a B+ Grade Polymath ([personal profile] tcpip) wrote2009-07-28 10:38 am

I suppose I really should mention...

... that I suggested to [livejournal.com profile] caseopaya that we get a civil union in accordance with Victorian law.

She said yes.

(I "blame", in part, [livejournal.com profile] airiefairie's excellent proposal for ending state-sanctioned marriage in favour of civil unions for all, and [livejournal.com profile] beagl and [livejournal.com profile] kimeros for cutting a similar path. Thanks for the inspiration.)
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[identity profile] mundens.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
Congrats.

The common term over here, as they are "Civil Unions" is "getting civilized", as "getting unionised" seems to have the wrong connotations, and whether civilized or not, the term "partner" is a good one. :)
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[identity profile] kremmen.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:08 pm (UTC)(link)
But we can usually trust Lev to go for the uncommon, even when already within the scope of the uncommon. :)

[identity profile] jesusandrew.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
Yay for you both!

[identity profile] paula-angela.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
congratulations

[identity profile] fluffyblanket.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Huzzah - congratulations !!!

[identity profile] discordia13.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
Well I didn't see that coming!

[identity profile] makingthematrix.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
Aww, you get civil-union-in-accordance-with-Victorian-law-ed... that's so romantic ;) Congratz :)

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[identity profile] niamh-sage.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations! :D

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[identity profile] 17catherines.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

Let me know if cake is required...

love

Catherine

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Cake is always required.

PS: I renewed the Lanidale domain a couple of days ago - I assumed that would be OK..

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[identity profile] fwuffydragon.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
Wonderful! Congratulations to you both!

[identity profile] belegdel.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:40 am (UTC)(link)
Fantastic excuse for an OTT party.
Also a good excuse to spend far too much money on clothes you'll never wear again. Ok that might just be me (us).

Congratulations.

[identity profile] abomvubuso.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:50 am (UTC)(link)
She said that?
Well frankly i dont care how its called, as long as she's beside me.

You're really taking all this very serious, as i see.

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 12:59 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* Yes she did, "Marriages should be left strictly to private religious institutions or social groups... Civil unions, on the other hand, are purely legal constructions with no affiliation to any culture, religion, or social group. That is the domain of the government."

You are in the presence of a wise woman :)

I can recognise that the model proposed is indeed the most beneficial pathway for the future that could keep everyone in the debate happy. So yes, very seriously indeed!

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[identity profile] zenicurean.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:11 am (UTC)(link)
Why, congratulations!

[identity profile] enrobso.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:19 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations and my best wishes for a long and happy future together.

[identity profile] 1phish2phish.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations to you both!

[identity profile] frou-frou.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
Congrats Lev and Erica :)

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! And "ooh, nice icon!"

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[identity profile] frou-frou.livejournal.com - 2009-07-29 05:49 (UTC) - Expand

Awesome!!

[identity profile] bodgirl.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 10:00 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations and well done :)

[identity profile] serehfa.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 10:56 am (UTC)(link)
Very nice...

[identity profile] lindsay40k.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:16 am (UTC)(link)
Whoa. As a big fan of Daria, I have to say that works on soooo many levels...

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[identity profile] lindsay40k.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations, both on this and on your incredibly groovy attitude to state recognition of private vows ^^

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
It just works on so many levels, doesn't it?

[identity profile] greenglowgrrl.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:29 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations and may everything go perfectly on your Unioning Day.

[identity profile] tau-iota-mu-c.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
Cool! Dancing line of conga rats!

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
All too appropriate in our case!

[identity profile] anthanum.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:12 pm (UTC)(link)
congratulations from Clare and I,
and all of the cats :P

[identity profile] jo-hoetmer.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Congrats from me too! When's the big day???

[identity profile] caseopaya.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you actually think we're that organised? :p

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[identity profile] beagl.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations to you both and I wish you every happiness!

Civil unions are clearly superior to marriage. :)

[identity profile] tcpip.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Heheh.. You would say that! :)

I'm wondering if there's an option for people, if they so wish (because I suspect there is a few), to change their status of marriage to a civil union?

(Obviously with jurisdiction caveats etc)

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[identity profile] nvcarnie.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Congrats! :-D

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