wow. everytime I look for intelligent conversations about polyamory, I never find people having them and now you guys are having one. and I watch this space for my other interests. I wish there was a good manual for this stuff. I just got out of a failing polyamorous relationship with a bipolar person. sigh. So do you guys have any recommendations for where I can find more intelligent discussions about this? yes I have been looking through the usual live journal sludge... and haven't found anything worth watching.