I contacted her a few years ago and she basically told me to fuck off and never speak to her again. It's been five years and I've come to terms with that, I'm in a much better place emotionally now.

It's great that you have a healthy point of view on relationships. As we say here in Brazil: "I want to be like you when I grow up" :D I'm still working on having healthy relationships, and it's hard most of the time.

I hope you find someone.